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Saturday, April 6, 2013
Thursday, April 4, 2013
Rockin’ Resources: 1st Edition
In addition to sharing my own insights and experiences with
the broke and beautiful readership, I want to start a tradition recommending
and sharing other awesome blogs, books, posts, videos, pictures, etc.
Happy learning, happy earning!
BOOKS:
The Money Book for
the Young, Fabulous, and Broke by Suze
Orman
One of the books that inspired me to take control of my money
and start blogging about it. I
love Suzie’s straightforward, easy to follow, and concrete approach to personal
finance.
Secrets of the
Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Game of Inner Wealth by T. Harv Ecker
This may be a little “new agey” for some, but I love to
dream big. A great motivator
and reminder to set yourself up for success.
BLOG POSTS:
Build A Wardrobe on a
Budget: Fashion Essentials Every
Frugal Girl Must Have by Frugal
Beautiful
Check this out and see if you can find your necessary
staples at this weekends’ clothing exchange party!
The Bread and Butter
of Personal Finance: 5 Simple Rules
By Mo’ Money Mo’ Houses
So simple. So
true.
Don’t Put Your Life
on Hold to Pay off Debt by My
Alternate Life
Finding the balance between wants and needs and a reminder
that personal finance is PERSONAL.
We all have to make our own judgement calls on what we feel we can
sacrifice and what we can’t.
More Money: 5 Ways to
Earn Extra Cash in Your Spare Time by Get
Rich Slowly
Who wants more money? Me!
Sunday, March 31, 2013
Customer Service Matters (Even for Cheapskates Like Me)
Being the penny pincher that I am I always thought that the
lowest price was the bottom-line.
At the end of the day, the less money I can spend the better,
right?
Well if anything could prove me more wrong, it would be my
experience with IKEA over the last few days.
To go through
my horrendous experience step by step would require several blog posts, maybe a
whole book. But I can say with
certainty, it was the most inefficient, painful, and maddening service experience
I’ve ever had. I spent at least
seven hours on the phone with customer service (mostly on hold or going through
the automated system yet AGAIN, since they can never give you a direct number
even if it is the 8th time you’re calling due to THEIR lack of
efficiency). My experience at the
store was no better. After three
days of dealing with the same order, it STILL isn’t resolved. I’ve cried, I’ve screamed, I’ve tried
to work through it with yoga…
Ultimately, no matter how low their prices are, it’s not worth the time
or aggravation.
The shame of it is, the staff and the employees at the store
and call centers are courteous and helpful but drowning under horrible company
policies and serious under staffing issues. I wrote to the company to express my frustration and was met
with an unsympathetic email regurgitating the stupid policies I was already all
too familiar with.
Needless to say, I will NEVER shop at IKEA again, even if
they have the best prices for a broke girl like me.
Would you be willing to pay a higher price for better
customer service?
Saturday, March 30, 2013
10-minute meal: Chickpea, Avocado, and Lime Salad
Quick, healthy, and easy. Serve as a salad or a main course.
Chickpeas (1 can or half a can)
1 Avocado, chopped
¼ Red Onion, diced
1 Tomato, diced
1 Bell Pepper, diced
2 Cloves garlic, minced
2 Limes, juiced
Fresh Cilantro (or parsley, or dill, whatever floats your
boat)
Salt and Pepper, to taste
Combine all ingredients. Stir and season to taste.
Cool it in the fridge before serving on a hot summer day. Or just mix it up and serve. Great with
a side of quinoa/black bean chips. Yumm!
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Stage Door Series: THE COST OF A CALLBACK
You got a callback!
Congratulations! Here are
your 20 pages of sides to learn.
We’ll see you Thursday at noon.
Step one: You leave a message for your boss. You won’t be able to babysit until 2pm
on Thursday (-2 hours of work= $30).
Your boss calls back. They
really need someone to pick the kids up at noon, just take the day off. (- 5 hour babysitting shift = $75).
Step two: You contact your favorite pianist to
get the sides recorded. (-$25 per
song= -$50).
Step three: As you work through the material you
find yourself struggling through the bridge- of course it sits right on your
break! You call your vocal coach
for an emergency session. (-$100).
Step four: You nail the callback and they ask you
to come back to tap on Friday. You
call your boss to cancel… again (- 5 hour babysitting shift= $75).
Step five: You haven’t taken a tap class since
college. You run to BDC (- $18).
Step six: Class totally paid off, they ask you to
sing again, and by the way, can you learn this new song? …..
You see where I’m going. At this point in the process the grand
total is up to $318. Now it may be
a bit of an exaggeration, but the reality is not far off. Auditioning, callbacks, classes,
perfecting your craft is expensive.
And even if you nail it, there’s no job guarantee. And even if you book it, you may be
walking away with barely enough to cover your expenses.
Be
smart about your money. You’re
gonna need more of it to book your next job!
Monday, March 25, 2013
Affordable Health Care NYC
Uninsured?
Underinsured? While we wait
for the new healthcare act to take effect, the following resources for New York
City residents are instrumental in providing comprehensive care to the large
percentage of un- and under- insured people in this city.
MetroPlus
MetroPlus has a number of affordable health care programs
for NYC residents. The following
are programs for those who don’t meet income requirements for Medicaid but
still need low cost healthcare.
Family Health Plus
New York State-sponsored health
insurance for adults ages 19-64 with income too high to qualify for
Medicaid. Benefits include regular
check ups, prescriptions, referrals to specialists, emergency and hospital
care, family planning, etc.
For
more information about Family Health Plus and income restrictions visit:
Child Health Plus
New York State-sponsored health
insurance for children under the age of 19 who are uninsured and are not
eligible for Medicaid. Insurance
premiums run from $0-$193.46 (As of April 2011) a month depending on household
income level. There is no income limit for this program. Benefits include regular checkups,
immunizations, emergency and hospital care, vision care, dental care, and
more.
For more information about Child
Health Plus visit: http://www.metroplus.org/mpp_child_health_plus.php
New York City Health
and Hospitals Corporation (HHC) OPTIONS.
HHC Options is a program that provides sliding scale care
for those with limited income who do not qualify for public health insurance
programs. The fee is determined
based on income and family size.
An adult fee for an emergency room or a clinic visit will cost somewhere
between $15 and $60, and covers almost all outpatient services (including blood
tests and most x-rays).
To find the HHC facility closest to you visit http://www.nyc.gov/html/hia/html/resources/hhc.shtml
Community Health
Centers (CHC)
Community Health Centers provide affordable primary care and
various supportive services (dental, vision, mental health, etc) depending on
location. Check your location to
see which services they provide.
Visit here for a list of centers.
Department of Health
and Mental Hygiene Clinics (DOHMH)
DOHMH offers free health services including immunizations,
STD testing, etc with no income requirements or restrictions. For a list of clinics and their
specific offerings visit.
Dental
Dental clinics and schools offer reduced-cost dental
treatment. The following link
offers a list of options. I
personally have used the clinic at NYU’s dental school for everything from
getting a cleaning to a filling to a dental implant. While each visit is a solid two hours, the savings are
worthwhile and the quality of care is excellent.
NYC Health Insurance
Link
NYC Health Insurance Link is a new online tool that finds
you an affordable healthcare plan based on your specific circumstances and
requirements.
Click here to get started.
Prescriptions
Save an average of 47% on prescriptions with Big Apple Rx.
Get your discount card here.
Save up to 75% on prescriptions with New York Rx card.
Get your discount card here.
Manhattan Clinics
The following is a list of three excellent, affordable
clinics in Manhattan.
New York City Free Clinic (NYCFC)
16
East 16th Street
For uninsured adults 18 years or
older, the NYCFC provides basic primary care, disease screening and prevention,
a women’s health clinic, and many other services. For more comprehensive care, free referrals are available to
the clinic at Bellevue Hospital Center and all extra care provided there is
free.
For more information visit http://nycfreeclinic.med.nyu.edu/
Weill Cornell Community Clinic
505 East 70th Street
A student run clinic for uninsured
NYC adults 19 years or older. Open
every Monday from 5pm-8pm. Provides
primary health care services, social work services, some laboratory tests, and
access to community resources like eye care services and cancer screenings.
For more information visit http://weill.cornell.edu/wccc/index.html
Al Hirschfield Free Health Clinic
475 W 57th Street
Funded by The Actors Fund, this
clinic is specifically for entertainment professionals 18- 64 years of
age. The clinic provides free
primary, and specialty care in addition to lab screenings, women’s health, and
referrals to affordable specialty clinics and doctors.
For more information visit http://www.actorsfund.org/services-and-programs/al-hirschfeld-free-health-clinic
The resources are out there. Call a clinic today and ensure your health for tomorrow.
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Why Facebook Rocks My World.
Facebook has been denounced as a privacy invading,
constantly changing, “faux” friend inducing, emoticon overusing, time wasting
vortex of crap. I, however, have
found Facebook to be an invaluable tool.
Not only in maintaining my friendships and filling my social calendar,
but in providing a public forum for life changing networking opportunities.
Job Opportunities
I’ve gotten work just from responding to friends’ statuses on
Facebook. On the other hand, I've
spent hours on Craigslist sifting through countless questionable job postings
and applying for gigs to no avail.
When I finally did book a gig through Craigslist, I went through hell
just to get paid for my work and was NEVER paid in full.
When a friend posts about work on Facebook, the work and the
employer have already been vetted in some way. You can at least judge the dependability of the gig and the likelihood
of being paid by the dependability of the friend. For me, one time Facebook gigs have turned into full-blown
part time work. And I’ve NEVER had
a problem being paid.
Resources
I also use Facebook to find resources. It’s like a free version of Angie’s
List. I post a status of what I’m
looking for, and within half an hour, I have at least five recommendations for
what I need (often with direct contact emails and numbers). Everything from getting my dental
implant affordably to getting music recorded immediately, the Facebook
community has pointed me in the right direction.
Promotion
Talk about free marketing. Most of the entertainment I patronize (be it a friends’ band
playing on the Lower East Side or a Broadway show) is from events and postings
I’ve seen on Facebook.
I’ve watched as causes, surgeries, projects, and shows have
been funded with campaigns shared through Facebook.
I’ve done my best to vote for people entering contests and
using the vast network of Facebook to don support.
The current number one source of traffic for this blog is
from Facebook (thanks for reading and sharing by the way).
Freebies
Finally, Facebook keeps me updated on friends’, families’,
and acquaintances’ careers and whereabouts. If I need advice from a certain professional I can reach out
far beyond my innermost social circle with the accessibility that Facebook
provides. I can also reach out
when I’m traveling. Finding
friends and acquaintances who’ll give recommendations, will act as local tour
guides, or provide a free place to stay.
By having this vast social media database of people with different
expertise from all over the country and the world, the opportunities are
limitless. I’ve reconnected with
people I haven’t seen in years through Facebook. Not only have I saved money by staying with them, but
enriched my travel and life experience by reconnecting.
I also love that Facebook catches me up on all the latest
viral videos, memes, trending news stories, and such, but that’s just for fun
:)
How has Facebook served you?
Monday, March 18, 2013
Choosing Your Response: A Thought Catalogue
Ever feel like the whole world is conspiring against
you? Yeah, me too. It’s totally nutso but every so often
there are those moments where it’s like “Really?”, “Is this REALLY my
life?”, “There’s no way this shit
just happens, there must be some bigger plot.”
Deep breaths.
More deep breaths.
AAAAAHHHHH!!!!
DEEP BREATHS. In….and
out….
Only you can choose your happiness. Shit happens… and happens… and
happens. But you have to continue
to stand up and say, I will chose the positive response. I will learn from this experience and
move forward stronger and smarter.
F**** my life!
DEEP BREATHS.
In…and out…
Yes, there are setbacks. Doubts. Despair
even.
You can’t choose what happens to you but you can choose how
you react. So if you encounter
catastrophe or even a minor setback- financially, spiritually, emotionally,
etc- I encourage you to step back, breathe, and rebuild from a place of greater
and wiser power.
Friday, March 15, 2013
Excuses.
I haven’t posted in a while. I recently got a fantastic gig that ate up just about every
free moment of my last few weeks.
Yes, I’m making excuses.
On the one hand, it was wonderful to have work and make some
real money. On the other hand, I noticed
how much I deferred my own projects and dreams.
I see it happen with my friends (mostly actors in New York)
all the time. Everyone is so
committed to their day job, what they’re doing just to get by, that they wipe
themselves out and don’t make it to auditions or class or networking events. For some reason we
feel so much more committed to our survival job schedule than our reason for
being here in the first place.
I recall a morning when I had to go work the breakfast shift
at a restaurant. I got up at 5am
and got myself on the bus, reluctantly, but I did it. I remember thinking; I wouldn’t do this for an
audition. I wouldn’t do this for
my own goals, but I’ll do it for someone else. It seemed so backwards.
Fast-forward two years and the same thing is happening. This Wednesday I finally had a day off
after two weeks of non-stop work.
I did nothing. I had put my
goals on hold to work for someone else, and when I had the time to execute
them, I didn’t. I negotiated with
myself. I procrastinated.
Why can’t I prioritize the work and goals I set for myself
the way I unquestioningly execute the work I do for others? Everyone does it. Whether it be career goals like being a
working actor or personal goals like writing a blog or working out. When
it comes to ourselves, we defer and make excuses.
It’s hard, but I think we
need to endow our own dreams with the same importance and respect that we give
to others. I see too many
brilliant people get so caught up in working for someone or something else that they lose sight of
themselves.
So here I am. Committing
to myself. You can hold me
accountable. There will be weekly
posts. There will be a redesign. There will be a giveaway. There will be social media
interaction. There will be growth.
Now what will you commit to? And who will hold you accountable?
Tuesday, March 5, 2013
The New MetroCard: What You Need to Know
Fares are up all around. Here’s a cheat sheet to help you decide if your usual
MetroCard purchase is still the best value for your needs.
Base Fare: $2.50
30 Day Unlimited:
$112
Is it worth it? You must ride the subway 48 times
in 30 days for this card to be worthwhile. That’s two rides per work day and eight on the weekend. If you’re not anticipating that much
travel, stick with a pay per ride card.
7 Day Unlimited: $30
Is it worth it? You must ride the subway 13 times
in 7 days for this card to be worthwhile.
Again, If you’re not anticipating that much travel, stick with a pay per
ride card.
Pay Per Ride
The pay per ride bonuses are dropping from 7% to 5%. If you want your card bonus to work out
to an exact amount of rides, purchase a $50 metro card and your balance will
return to zero rather than 75 cents or some other awkward amount.
** If you want to get your balance down to zero, you can put
your card in the machine and select “Other Amounts”. Manually type in the difference needed to get to the base
fare of $2.50.
NEW CHARGE! $1 fee for every new MetroCard you
buy!
Time to start refilling your old MetroCards. If your old
card is damaged or expired (they expire every two years), go to the window and
turn it in for a new one free of charge.
Times to Reconsider
Your Usual MetroCard Purchase:
- - When you’re scheduled to leave town for more
than a couple of days. If you wind up with an extra week or even an extra day or two on your unlimited, pass
it off to a friend or someone on the street. They’ll appreciate it.
- - If your commute changes. New job. New apartment. New
locations. Will it change the
frequency with which you’ll be taking the train?
-
- - If your schedule changes. Working freelance and things are
quiet? Maybe opt for a pay per
ride for “as needed” trips and spend some time building your business from
home.
- - If the weather changes. As temperatures start to rise and we
enjoy a few glorious spring months you may want to opt for walking (if it’s a
possibility) or biking more often.
For additional information about the new fares visit the MTA’s
site.
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
NYC FREE FIND: The Times Square Visitors Center Wishing Wall
I don’t know about you, but around this time of year I start
losing sight of the many resolutions I made at New Years. The reality and routine of life
combined with the endlessness of winter dull my motivation to do just about
anything other than sit in front of the television and watch marathons of “Downton
Abbey” and “Girls”.
But last week I discovered a little New York gem that
renewed my spirit. In the heart of
Times Square I came upon a Wishing Wall.
Tiny squares of colorful paper with the wishes of people from all over
the world tacked up to be shared.
After reading thru many lotto winner hopefuls and love seekers I wanted
to add my own dreams to the bunch.
I grabbed a slip of pink paper and wrote in big, bold letters my biggest,
boldest dreams. I put them in a
box with the other wishes of the day to be added to the wall and eventually
released over Times Square in the celebratory moment that is midnight of the
New Year. That’s what becomes of
the wishing wall. At the end of
each year, all the wishes are collected to be released as the confetti over
Times Square that signal the start of a New Year and a new wish.
Something about adding my wish to the collective and having
it be a part of that moment really resonated with me and renewed my sense of
commitment to my resolutions.
Anything that can reconnect you with your goals is a powerful tool and
one that we all need to check in with from time to time. Luckily, I’ve found mine and thankfully,
there’s no limit to the wishes you can make. I expect I’ll be back at the wishing wall again soon,
sharing my dreams and reaffirming the commitments I’ve made to myself.
Happy Dreaming.
The Times Square Visitors Center is located at 1560 Broadway New York, NY
10036
Open 7 days a week. 8am-8pm
Thursday, February 21, 2013
You CAN Always Get What You Want
Last night my girlfriends and I went out to celebrate a very
special birthday. I knew I’d be
splurging a bit so I checked out the menu online before heading out. I wanted
to have an idea of how much I’d be spending. I settled on a moderately priced mushroom ravioli but when I
got to the restaurant the price was 20% more than the price listed online.
Sure,
in the scheme of things it was only an additional $3, but then I got to
thinking; If everyone’s dish was 20% more at the restaurant than online, that’d
be a hugely substantial increase- especially with a party of 10.
I
pulled up the restaurant’s site on my phone and pointed out the discrepancy to
the manager. We wound up with a
table full of complimentary desserts that night.
The
point here isn’t to score free stuff, but to speak up when there’s a misrepresentation
or a mistake.
While
I’ve enjoyed refunds, free replacements, complimentary gift cards, and as of
last night, free desserts, I only like to say something if I feel there’s a
legitimate complaint to be made. I
don’t seek to take advantage of a business, but I also don’t want a business to
take advantage of me- even unintentionally.
As
a kid I was always mortified when my mom complained. So for a long time I let myself get screwed over when things
weren’t as advertised or a service wasn’t up to par or when something wasn’t
what I asked for or ordered. But
over the years I’ve learned that silence isn’t always golden and it’s worth it
to speak up. So next time
something seems off or you’re less than pleased, kindly point it out and ask
for what you deserve- 100% satisfaction.
Thursday, February 14, 2013
What Women Want.
It’s not necessarily the flowers or the chocolates or the
fancy bottle of wine, it’s what went into getting it. You were thinking of me and went out of your way to do
something for me. The value of
that isn’t reflected in the price of the gift but in the thought and effort
that went into it.
That’s what women want.
To be valued.
Not monetarily but in time and in thought. Here are some totally free ways to show your love everyday.
Communicate. Women want to be loved. They want to be shown that and they
want to be told that. Even if you
say it all the time, say it more and say why.
Appreciate. Women love to take care of
others. Let them know that you
recognize their efforts and appreciate them. Say thank you.
Listen. Women want to be heard. If they mention something repeatedly,
make a mental note. When you have
the opportunity to act on it, they’ll be thrilled you cared enough to remember.
Prioritize. Women prioritize love.
Show your love by doing the same.
Turn off the computer, the videogames, the cell phone, the television, the big game,
whatever and reciprocate the attention, the time, and the love they give you.
Finding and growing love comes free. The flowers and paraphernalia are just
some fun extras.
Sunday, February 10, 2013
Automate Your Life
… Or at least your budget. If you’re one of those people who are “allergic” to
budgeting I challenge you to take one day to set up some basic accounts and
automate your financial life.
Instead of stressing out about how to set aside money each time a
paycheck comes in, or worse, blowing your paycheck each week, let the power of
automation help you.
You can automate based on whatever budget you like. There are many arguments to be made for
the best budgeting plan, but what’s most important is that you put SOME plan in
place. For the purposes of
simplicity and getting started I’m going to suggest a fairly simple plan. You can set up as many separate
accounts as you like or need as you get the hang of things or find certain new
categories in your life that you’d like to fund (for example, an account for
your children), but for now let’s keep it simple.
Expense Account
-
55% of each paycheck.
-
Held in a checking account.
-
Covers fixed monthly expenses (rent, utilities,
food, insurance, etc).
* If your expenses are more than 55% of your take home pay
that’s a big red flag. You are
living beyond your means and you need to take some time to reassess and see
where you can cut back. Read
through some other “broke and beautiful” posts for ideas.
Emergency Fund
-
10% of each paycheck until maxed out (six to one
year of living expenses).
-
Held in a high yield (preferably online) savings
account.
-
Covers unexpected expenses (medical bills, loss
of job, car breakdown, etc).
-
Once this fund is maxed out, this money can be
allocated to other accounts (I recommend retirement (specifically in the form
of a ROTH IRA) or long term savings/debt).
Retirement Account
-
10% of each paycheck.
-
Held either through your employer in a 401k or
your own retirement fund (I recommend a ROTH IRA) through a reputable brokerage
firm (ING, Vanguard, Schwab, etc).
-
Covers retirement. Not to be drawn from until then.
Debt Payment/Long
Term Savings Account
-
10% of each paycheck.
-
Gets paid directly to credit card, student
loans, or any other debt; or deposited in a high yield (preferably online)
savings account.
-
Covers debt payments and long-term savings goals
(down payment for a home or car, savings for a major renovation, etc).
Play Account
-
10% of each paycheck.
-
Held in a checking account.
-
Covers dining out, entertainment, hobbies,
indulgences, vacations, etc.
Giving Account
-
5% of each paycheck.
-
Held in a checking or easily accessible savings
account.
-
Covers gifts and charitable donations.
Now that we’ve established a sample budget structure let’s
talk about automation.
1.
If you haven’t already set up direct deposit
through your employer do so today.
Deposit your paychecks and any other forms of income into your expense account. Make sure you’ve established online access
to this account as this is how you’re going to set up the remainder of your
automation.
2.
Set up automatic bill pay from your expense account for any monthly bills you
can pay online. (Cable, mortgage,
etc).
3.
Open an account for each of the categories above
at the recommended institutions (bank, employer, or brokerage). Be sure to establish online access.
* You don’t even need to go to the bank to
open an account. Everything can be
done online or over the phone.
4.
From your Expense
Account (the place where all income is collected/deposited) start automatic
transfers through the Transfers and
Payments page of your banks‘ site to the rest of your accounts.
For Internal Accounts (held
at the same bank) Choose:
-
From (Your
checking “expenses” account).
-
To (the
appropriate account (“play”, “give”, etc)).
-
Amount (10%
or 5% of your typical paycheck depending on which account).
-
Frequency
(However often you get paid).
*If you freelance or have variable income, make transfers
bi-weekly or monthly based on your overall income for that month.
For External Accounts (held at a
different bank or brokerage) Choose:
-
Add
external account (enter account number, routing number, bank information).
-
Verify
external account.
-
Set up automation as described above (under internal
accounts).
Each bank will have a slightly
different way of automating, but they all follow roughly the same format. Adapt as necessary.
Once you’ve automated you’ll know exactly
how much money you have to “play” or “give”, etc. The automation will force you into moderation and not
overspending all the time. It will
also force you to take responsible action towards retirement and long-term
savings goals. Depending on your
budgeting plan and financial goals you can adjust the percentages, amounts, and
frequency with which you deposit into each account.
I know it’s a lot and can seem
overwhelming, but take the time.
It’s worth it. Set aside
this one day to work through setting up each account and watch your financial
goals become reality in the future- automatically.
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